I love my family to bits! There will be never ending drama with my mother's sisters around. Recently, they have been discussing about my uncle's business and that i guess that topic will stay for quite some time. Their animated speeches will never fail to crack me up. My poor cousins have to listen to the stories over and over again because my aunt will repeat the same speech to all 4 sisters... How how interesting... woot!!

Today's session with my counsellor has been a very enlightening one...

In life, whatever you do, you will definitely have a role to play. What is your role? Once you have identified your role in a particular organisation or situation, things will definitely be much better for you because you will then know what you have to do and what you should do. Not having a well defined role can cause you to burn out easily because you will then be doing stuff which you should not be doing...

Also, in whatever situation you are placed in without have a choice, you have to accept it and learn to work things out from there. One should not dwell into the bad side of things and indulge in self-pity because one cannot achieve anything out of it. It will only make you feel more depressed and this leads to health problems. There might be certain things which you will have to do which is not part of your job scope, e.g. regimental duty. Treat them as little spects of dust which you will have to do because your job and being a soldier comes together as a package.

In this world, there will be many losses. Losses in terms of a loved one, a relationship, material things and many other stuff. Whenever you lose something, you will have to fill up that void immediately and not leave it there and let it grow. Making yourself busy with work will not help because at the end of the day, once you are free, these sad thoughts will flow back again and it will be in a larger magnitude. Instead of ruminating about it, why not find a solution to it or even try to close this chapter?

Through the many phases of life, you will meet many people. Friendships are forged between some of them. Some might be transition friends and some might even be your very close friends. In the working society, people come, people go. When a friend leaves, it does not mean that your friendship ends there unless you regard the person as a transition friend (friendship made out of convenience...). If you really do treasure the friendship, keep in contact with them instead of mulling over the "loss" because the person is still living and breathing. Don't fear but trust.

This is what I have learnt today. How inspiring.... =)

Chinese New Year has been interesting this year. I had my reunion dinner at home with my parents and my brother. I quiet one. Then as usual, I would go to my 4th aunt's (mother's sister) place for another round of reunion dinner before heading home to usher in the new year.

This year, my family headed to my uncle's house (mother's brother) first before proceeding to my father's side. Its really a very quiet gathering this year... But my cousin's house is very very nice! It has a great scenary of the sea and the design is great! I've taken quite a few photos at her house. Can't resist such a huge opportunity... haha... Here are a few of them...

CNY holidays are over. Wonder what other days are there for me to look forward to before I ORD. Time seems to fly if you are unaware of what you are doing and it seems to crawl when you are observing every minute and every second, waiting for that faithful day to come.... haiz... Wake up Jeremy! wake up! Its coming... its coming... Thank God I have a wonderful family and great friends to bring me through each day...

Happy valentine's day everybuddy!


I was told that i shouted and mumbled in my sleep last night... This is so freaky... For the past few nights, I was unable to sleep/sleep well at all... I'm suffering from insomnia and its kind of getting on my nerves because I seriously need to sleep... The lack of sleep is killing me... argh... Hopefully things will be better for me as each day pass..

CNY is coming! yippee!

Yet another week has passed. Nat nat and ao ao has ORDed, leaving me with these words... "Your time will come" Oh yea it will... Gotta be patient won't I?

Anyway, I bought 2 books last week when I was out with my cousins, "Asking for trouble: Tales of Saffy and Amanda" and "Table for Three: More tales of Saffy and Amanda". These 2 books are a must read!! Its extremely hilarious!!! They were the first books which actually made me laugh out loud while reading it and I just can't stop smiling while reading. Its basically the story of Jason Hahn and his oh so dramatic life with his flat mates who never fail to amaze me with their weird antics... Haha... How I wish my life will be something like that... It will never be boring (though it can get annoying sometimes...) Oh well... Its definitely a must read for people who needs humour in their life =)

I bought another 2 books yesterday while I was out with Andre. "Scribbles from the Same Island" and "Final Notes from a Great Island" by Neil Humphreys. I've only started the first one and so far its quite interesting. Woohoo! I guess most of my time will be occupied by these two books for the time being.

Andre and I went shopping for New Year clothes yesterday and it was a very fruitful one. We managed to get something despite the crowd that was there. Oh well... Chinese New Year is coming and I am so looking forward to it. Woohoo! I'm getting this cny feeling man... baking pineapple tarts again and again and again...

To end off this entry, I shall post photos of the 7 wanderers! Really miss them alot and truly regret that I did not spend much quality time with them in the past... shite me...

Dearest Mr Eric Chua. Our PE Teacher who inspire us to name ourselves the 7 wanderers...

I went shopping with my cousins yesterday. Got a new pair of shoes!! (My old one had officially disintegrated to nothingness... ) So yay!!! Also bought 2 shirts from Samuel and Kelvin, 2 books by Jason Hahn and a CD... I spent a lot yesterday... But its okay! Everything was sponsored by my dad! yippee!! It was very very crazy yesterday! Shan't type out what happened in order not to throw face....

Last night, I dreamt that I was in my grandma's home... It was new year's eve and I was like feeling all sad that no one turned up for reunion dinner since my grandmother had passed away. My brother and I were at the kitchen preparing for something and it was all weird. I told my mum about the dream and she said that we have to pay respect to my grandmother on the eve. Which explains what my brother and I were doing in the kitchen in my dream. Anyway, this I'll be going to my uncle's house on the first day of chinese new year. Shall see how different this year would be...

Nat and ao ao will be ording this week... Haiz... sad that they are leaving (lesser company you see...) but am definitely happy for them! At last, they are released from their service... haha... Oh well... I guess once dre and mi mi leaves, life at work will be more and more boring (although will still be others it will be different)... Haiz... haiz... haiz... They say that my time will come... but how long will it take for my time to come?! (looks at ORD countdown timer at sidebar...) Haiz... I need to relax... I seriously do...

I've gained 1 kg... yippee!

I want to ORD...